The success or failure of any Lolita adaptation rests entirely on the casting of Humbert Humbert. James Mason (1962) played him as a charming, coldly intellectual monster. Jeremy Irons, in the 1997 version, does something far more dangerous: he makes him human.
If you search for today, you will find the film streaming on platforms like The Criterion Channel (occasionally) or for digital rental on Amazon Prime (under the title Lolita: 1997 ). Watch it with the lights on.