At the start of the series, Jules’s romantic life is defined by hyper-femininity and validation from cisgender men. Her anonymous sexual encounters with older men are framed as a way to "conquer" femininity. By being desired by the very group that often marginalizes trans women, she seeks a sense of power and legitimacy. These interactions are transactional and hollow, illustrating a version of romance built on external validation rather than internal connection. The Complexity of "Rules"

One of Jules' most traumatic storylines involves her digital relationship with "Tyler," who is revealed to be catfishing her.

The portrayal of these Jules High School — Sex Vedio dynamics highlights how Jules seeks love as a form of self-discovery while navigating the specific challenges of being a transgender girl in a high-stakes environment.

: In later school years, Jules enters a complicated "love triangle" involving . Her chemistry with

Jules's arc is defined by her transition from seeking external validation (from men) to seeking internal peace. Her special episode, "F ck Anyone Who's Not a Sea Blob,"* is a critical turning point where she confesses that her entire "desire" was built around what she thought men wanted.