Most parents punish themselves more than the teen. Taking away their phone for a week means you have to monitor, fight, and listen to whining. That’s free entertainment for a rebellious teen—they get your emotional energy.
Train hard. Stay calm. Keep the contract posted on the fridge. And remember: every time you enforce a consequence without anger, you are not being cruel—you are being the most honest person your teen has ever faced. how to train a delinquent teen 2
Beyond Punishment: How to Train (Not Break) a Delinquent Teen – Part 2: Preparation Most parents punish themselves more than the teen